I've been feeling more annoyed and frustrated with the assumptions and perceptions people have been making lately regarding my pronouns and gender identity. My response to this boxing, is f(l)agging.
I am reclaiming brightly coloured fitted jeans, cute homemade crop tops, and paisley shoes in an attempt to make myself more visibly faggy. It makes me die a little inside when folks assume 1) that I'm cis (the woes of passing benefits) or 2) straight. Ok, well I don't think anyone who knows me even remotely reads me as 'straight' but I can tell some folks try to put me in the gay-stream. And i"m like, "No, sweetheart. There's no way I could survive with all the raw sewage they try to pass off as beneficial to the masses.."
I need more mirroring of my identity. I need to be a little more flamboyant. I need to be a little more faggy. I'm ready for this.
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