I've been struggling with this concept of sexual confidence for the past few weeks. A friend of mine has been mentioning it and I've been thinking a lot about what it means, because my friend didn't define it or give examples. Today I finally got something to go off of.
To my friend, sexual confidence is "being able to talk dirty and dominate/be domineering and be a tease." It took me about two hours before the truck hit the wall. This whole time I've been wrestling with this idea of sexual confidence and how it isn't always applicable, but maybe it is and in which situations is I present and is it always present... But what I was actually doing was trying to explain/hypothesise on sexual confidence and sexual experience simultaneously.
And almost breaking my brain in the process.
The two terms are not interchangeable nor are they inherently interconnected. It took a 60mph journey north on I-5 for me to finally realise this.
Sexual confidence is the ability to hold one's sexuality, be comfortable with it and being able to rock it, flaunt it and wield it to one's advantage. Sexual experience is the ability to perform various sexual acts with expertise.
And now that I have realised that they are separate things that can--but are not always--related, I can rest my brain. This is like three weeks of serious bruising that needs to heal.
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